Assume

Gratitude's
1.  The training i have been in though suntrust the past 2 days
2. My second job at target learned so much there
3. My great friends


Wow.  I have spent my entire life pretty much assuming i think i know what i am doing.  And boy am i wrong.  I thought i knew people.  I am wrong.  And being wrong is awesome because now i can improve my situation.  I have learned in the past few days to get out there and be myself.  I have learned how to connect with others and the i have a huge strength when it comes to that.  i am so blessed to work where i do that they are improving my ability to connect and help others.  The past few days have been banner days for me really.  the goals that i have set for myself are very lofty but i know i have the ability to get there.  So i just wanted to say to anyone reading this.  GET OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE.  that is where you will find purpose and true life.  Have a great evening.  I am still trying to get on a schedule on writng this blog with working the 2 jobs it is hard.  But i am going to try to do it 3 days a week.  Give me some feedback facebook message me tell me what you need help with tell me what you want me to talk about or even the days you think would be best.   Thanks again.

What We Have

My gratitudes.

My mother in law Vicki. She is an amazing grammi to my kids.
My ex wife jennifer Our marriage didn't work but we have always put the kids first and get along amazing.
My brother who has always inspired me to be a great father.  He showed me what being a great dad is by the love i saw in his eyes for my nieces

This is a thought i had when thinking about purpose we have to look at what we already have.  I think that we have to take stock of who we are right now and what we have before choosing the purpose for the future.  Ask friends and family how they see you but don't base your decision on that at all.  Then we have to look at who we are and be honest.  Our good attributes our negative ones all need to be thought of.  the greatest advice i was ever given i think is that you are who you are good and bad.  The negative parts of you are not bad they are still you.  so many times we try to stuff them down and drown them out.  They are still part of you and are there for a reason.  Listen to the small inner voice.

Not a long one today.  Just wanted to share.  these will be more regular so please stay tuned.  i am going to start having a schedule of when i will be writing.

Define

I hope this writing finds you well.  I have decided on a format for the blog.  I will start every blog out with 3 things i am thankful for just thought i would share.  and i will share one person in my life i am grateful for.  i am grateful for more but just wanna do aa special someone every writing.  

Gratitude.  

My time with my kids.  I may not have as much as i want but i love being in the moment with them

My ability to work 2 jobs some times it can be tiring but i am so blessed i can work for things

National lampoons christmas vacation i love this movie nothing says christmas like clark griswold

Mary Beth Mutta

I just was thinking today about defining.  Who, what, where defines you.  I think that the world gives us definition on what is right and wrong and what we should believe in.  A lot of the time we buy into these because our parents told us that was the way it was or whatever pushed that upon us.  In the 60's the counter culture movement asked us to question those things and think for ourselves.  This i believe is the first key to finding your true purpose and living a kick ass life.  We must challenge status quo.  We must listen to our hearts and not our minds.  I have learned over the past year that the mind will lead you astray and keep you comfortable but that doesn't mean happy.  I think that the mind can truly hurt you when you are looking for your purpose in life.  mine has truly set me back i look at everything i have wanted to do and i find fault in it and why it wont work.  to live in purpose and true passion you have to live with your heart.  i am still finding that purpose i have a idea of what it will be but it doesn't scare me yet so i know it is not big enough.  

I truly hope you enjoy this writings.  

eddavate: Are you comfortable???????

eddavate: Are you comfortable???????: First i would like to welcome you to a NEW blog for Eddie the purpose for this blog is the educate and the motivate you in your every...

Are you comfortable???????

First i would like to welcome you to a NEW blog for Eddie the purpose for this blog is the educate and the motivate you in your every day life to reach for the juice of life and to reach out and find your true purpose and RUN toward it.

One of the first things i have and am still learning about living a kick ass life is my comfort zone.  David Wood of the kick ass life always says that true happiness is lived in the space outside of your comfort zone.  The more i have researched this the more i find it to be true.  The more i do in my personal life that I never have before or i was to scared to do the more in that kick ass life i find myself.  Going on hikes that i never have before by myself.  Go to places i never have and meeting new and interesting people.  I have learned how to do more things alone in the past year then i have my entire life.  I am so happy too.  I have gained some amazing friends.  IN the comfort zone you will be comfortable but that doesn't mean happy.  It may be content but it doesn't mean happy.  That is what this new blog is all about.  Reaching out and writng like i never have before.  Reading book more then i ever have and learning more then i ever have.  To find my purpose and to run after it.  So do i already have all the answers.  OH HELL NO. I am not even close to having even one third of the answers.  But i have the desire to find them and to tackle them.  This is my new obession.  To find the purpose i have on this earth and achieve it.  My grandmother once told me i was going to do great things on this earth.  I believe this so deep within me.  I have put this believe under a lot of fear and anger but now it is time to live that purpose.  SO come along with me.  I hope i can inspire you to do the same.  God bless you and lets have some Fun.