Define

I hope this writing finds you well.  I have decided on a format for the blog.  I will start every blog out with 3 things i am thankful for just thought i would share.  and i will share one person in my life i am grateful for.  i am grateful for more but just wanna do aa special someone every writing.  

Gratitude.  

My time with my kids.  I may not have as much as i want but i love being in the moment with them

My ability to work 2 jobs some times it can be tiring but i am so blessed i can work for things

National lampoons christmas vacation i love this movie nothing says christmas like clark griswold

Mary Beth Mutta

I just was thinking today about defining.  Who, what, where defines you.  I think that the world gives us definition on what is right and wrong and what we should believe in.  A lot of the time we buy into these because our parents told us that was the way it was or whatever pushed that upon us.  In the 60's the counter culture movement asked us to question those things and think for ourselves.  This i believe is the first key to finding your true purpose and living a kick ass life.  We must challenge status quo.  We must listen to our hearts and not our minds.  I have learned over the past year that the mind will lead you astray and keep you comfortable but that doesn't mean happy.  I think that the mind can truly hurt you when you are looking for your purpose in life.  mine has truly set me back i look at everything i have wanted to do and i find fault in it and why it wont work.  to live in purpose and true passion you have to live with your heart.  i am still finding that purpose i have a idea of what it will be but it doesn't scare me yet so i know it is not big enough.  

I truly hope you enjoy this writings.