We take time to cry.

This is actually inspired by my daughter this morning.

So many times we take time to cry about what has happened to us.  And we take so much time that other things pass us by.  I noticed today that a simple task can turn into a huge emotional issue if we let it.  I see this in my life a lot.  The boss asks you to do something.  You take time to bitch about how she asked it and what she said instead of just doing it.  The boss asks you to do something you do it but go to the smoke circle and bitch about it for 15 minutes and poison others day.  Some one insults you to make themselves feel better and you take it on yourself and hurt for hours even days.  All of these things can bring us down and take our emotional health down.  We start to question ourselves which kills our confidence and our gratitude.   With out both of these things we find ourselves choking and Dying inside because the garden of life can only be grown in good positive soil.

I have started to learn what one of my teachers has been talking about for years.  Instant forgiveness.  This is such a strong thing.  To say they are human also and move on let it go and move to the next task or thought is so powerful.  It is a slow process for me to have learned but i am slowly reducing the time i stay in hate and forgiveness.  I think this is important to know that it will not happen over night.  It will take time to heal from the past and you should feel pain and understand that it is part of being human.  But to let that rule you for longer then you need to heal to let that effect the way you treat others.  That is not the way to live a truly happy life.  I am starting to learn in life that we must live every moment to the fullest. and forgive ourselves when we don't.  As my father always says there is only one perfect man they hung him on a cross.