I am the victim

Wow What a statement that is.  I AM THE VICTIM.

It is something that a lot of people live on a daily basis.  I did for a long time.  No matter what my situation i always found a reason i was the victim of someone else's actions.  I think that can be one of the biggest defeating attitudes.  Because if you are the victim then even when you do achieve then it is not even your achievement.

I am around a lot of people in my life with the victim mindset.  When something goes wrong the first reaction is to find someone or something to blame for the mistake.  Think about it in your life at work when something goes wrong do the people around you or even yourself look to point the finger.  take the blame and push to to someone else because it will make your life easier.

Take a look at the place you are in life.  Why, in your mind, are you at this point in life?  When you tell your story in your head who is responsible for the place you have in this world?  For a very long time i told myself that it was others FAULT that my life was where it was.  But that also meant when i did something good i would not take full responsibility.

Life is about what YOU do with it not what others do to you.  The control of your life lives within you and you have the ability to create the life that you want.  So truly honestly no one is the victim of anyone else's action for their attitude or place in life.  We have the choice of how to feel about how others treat us and we allow them to stay in our lives or not.  Ultimately when life is over and you are in your last moments what we have done in our life will never be in others hands.  It will be in our hands to look at life and what WE have made of these years on this earth.

Remember You control your thoughts and actions no one else.